Just because this sweatshirt is comfortable doesn’t mean I should wear it. EVER.

I used to have personal style, or at least I thought I did, but do you know how long it has been since I was able to feel confident about the way I present myself to the world? Decades, and I wish I was kidding. When I went to college and my Mom stopped paying for my clothes, I traded in Classic, well-made, well-fitting clothing for whatever I could afford at the thrift store, and that’s been my “style” ever since. I can remember how it felt to be 15, 16, wearing the latest in uber-chic preppy fashion from Jacobsen’s in East Lansing, and wanting to look at myself in the mirror. What I really need is a definitive guide to creating my own style now that I am an adult.

Thankfully, Nina Garcia, fashion director at ELLE magazine and judge on Project Runway has released a book through Harper Collins called “The Little Black Book of Style”. I’ll be reviewing the book itself on Monday, but I can tell you that what I have learned from reading it has opened my eyes in a whole new way to what the possibilities can be for me as far as creating my own personal style when it comes to what I wear.

Today, Parent Bloggers Network is having this Blog Blast to encourage us to dig deep into our closets, pull out an embarassing item and show it to everyone. When I found this sweatshirt, I knew right away that it was the perfect candidate:

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There are so many things wrong with this piece of clothing, I hardly know where to start. First of all, I know I bought it while I was working at the Credit Union, so sometime between 1992 and 1998. I purchased it at Mervyn’s, I remember, and although the label says size Medium, do you see how it is almost the width of my entire HALLWAY? That’s because I wore it while pregnant with both my boys. So basically this is a maternity-size sweatshirt that I still think is appropriate to wear now. Um, NO. And, do I really need to point out the hideousness of that ring of flowers around the “FL” on the front? (Stands for “French Laundry”, the manufacturer, if you were wondering).Parent Bloggers Network is rounding up all these embarassing style disaster posts and choosing one at random to win a $250.00 Coach gift certificate. Personally? I think I should win just for being brave enough to show you this photo here:

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Ryan’s second birthday party, Oct. 04 1998. I am eleven weeks away from giving birth to Nathan, although you can’t really tell because I’m sitting down. But what am I wearing? Uh huh. I swear if someone buys me a Coach bag, I will become the most fabulous Mom ever. And I will BURN THIS SWEATSHIRT in our barbecue grill. You can count on it!

You can enter to win a $250 Coach certificate by following these instructions from Parent Bloggers Network: Tell us how your style has deteriorated over the years and provide some photographic evidence – a picture of the most hideous item that’s still darkening your closet – and ‘fess up to why it’s still in there!Â

1) Anytime today, September 7, before midnight PST, write a post about your style – or lack thereof – and include a picture of the item(s) in your closet that most desperately need to be donated. Title it creatively and descriptively.

2) In your post, link to PBN (http://blog.parentbloggers.com) and Harper Collins (http://www.harpercollins.com/books/9780061234903/
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3) Send us the link to your post (email to parentbloggers@gmail.com). Good luck!

My family spends quality time playing videogames!

It’s a very special Blog Blast, brought to you by Parent Bloggers Network and EA Games, who have released a new game for the Nintendo Wii called the Wii-Boogie. It’s a family game that everyone ten and up can play, and you create characters and then make them sing and dance together. So, get it? Wii-Boogie? WE-Boogie? Genius!

The theme of this Blog Blast is “A Family That Plays Together, Stays Together,” which is why this is the IDEAL post for me to do. You see, my family? Plays videogames together. Unless the boys are at a sleepover, we get together every Friday night for this unbreakable ritual:

Take-out pizza and breadsticks, which are eaten in the living room on the coffee table, and
Video games. Lego Star Wars 1 and 2, Halo 1 and 2, the newest Harry Potter game, anything from the Legends of Zelda collection- we eat, and then we play videogames. Since there are four of us, we take turns playing two-player games, or controlling the character in a one-player game. I don’t care for the shooting-type games, so I usually sit those out.

Our first game system was a Nintendo 64, purchased when Ryan was four. When the GameCube came out, I went to Best Buy the day after Thanksgiving and stood in line for two and a half hours to buy one. Both of the boys have GameBoys, as well. The only Nintendo system we don’t own (YET!) is the Wii. And believe me, I WANT ONE. I think the idea of having the controller be how you actually control the game is BRILLIANT. And now there is this brand-new game the Wii-Boogie, where you create a character, and then use the controller to make everyone’s characters dance together! Because the game is rated 10 and up, the songs that are included are all PG (no bad words in Pink’s “Get the Party Started”, for example).

Friday pizza and videogame night is our family’s way of making time that is just for us. Our kids look forward to it all week. I think it’s important to have times that kids can count on, when they know that they will have their parents undivided attention. I also think it’s important for families to find activities that everyone enjoys, and for us, that is videogames! But unlike regular videogames that we play, what I find so appealing about Nintendo Wii games, and especially the Boogie game, is that it would get us all up off the couches and floor and get us moving, something we could all benefit from.

So, how does your family spend quality time together? What is your favorite family activity? Write a post today answering these questions:

What are your favorite family activities and how do you find the quality family time?
And if you don’t have quality family time, how do you make up for it? What challenges do you face?

Send your post TITLE and URL to parentbloggers@gmail.com, and you will be entered in a drawing to win either the Grand Prize, a Nintendo Wii and a Boogie game, or be one of three people to win a Boogie game! If you mention Parent Bloggers Network in your post, please link to http://blog.parentbloggers.com/, and if you mention the Wii-Boogie game, please link to http://www.wii-boogie.com. Good luck to all of us, but honestly, I really hope *I* win!


This post is brought to you in conjunction with Parent Bloggers Network & EA’s Wii-Boogie, a family gaming experience. Shake it. Sing it. Create it.

Noah’s Pals

Sometimes I have this overwhelming urge to get rid of absolutely every toy my kids have and just start over from scratch. It drives me that all of their action figures have so many detachable parts that never seem to stay on more than a week. What my kids need is more high quality toys, like these amazing Noah’s Pals.

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Parent Bloggers Network arranged for me to receive five pairs of these incredibly detailed, hand-painted animals, along with Noah and his two doves. Each box contains a card, richly detailed with information about the animals, including each one’s name, gender, height, length and weight. The card also tells you whether the animal is endangered, vulnerable, or common, which countries the animal comes from, and what kind of environment they live in. And, for older kids, you get information on which Animal Family the pair belongs too, and their scientific name.

We received Noah and the doves Derek and Delilah, who are common, found worldwide, and prefer to live near the coast. Noah’s hand is molded to hold a staff, but one of the kids must have lost it, so poor Noah just stands there, arm outstretched, hand in a loose fist. The doves are very tiny and could be easily swallowed, so even though the age for the toys is 3 and up, watch carefully while your kids play with the smaller animals.

The other pairs we received are Owen and Olivia Ostrich (common, Africa, grassland), Jared and Janet Jaguar (vulnerable, Central and South America, Tropics), Christopher and Chesca Caribou (common, forest, the male weighs 450 lbs.), Matt and Marcie Musk Ox (Endangered, males are 7 feet inches long, females weigh 600 lbs.), and Kolby and Katy Kinkajou, which are also very tiny and should be kept away from toddlers, but they are VERY CUTE.

Now, here’s the best part- on the back of each information card is a scratch-off box with a code to enter at Noahspals.com. If you want to register your animals as you collect them, you’ll need to register for the site, and an email address is required, so if your child wants to register, you’ll need to enter your own email as well. Enter all the codes,using a check-off Boarding List to keep track, and as a reward for collecting all 40 pals, you will receive a special package from Caboodle!, including an extinct pair of Dodo birds.

There is, however a catch- you can’t buy the animals in online stores! They were designed to be sold to gift shops, retail stores, and zoos, so you will have to do some digging to find all of them. That’s part of the fun!

Two more very important things I would like you to know about Noah’s Pals: first of all, this company is simply two people, Steve and Janet, who want to help animal lovers make a difference in animal’s lives, so they donate 5% of their net profit to the Wildlife Conservation Society. To learn more about their reason for starting their company and their incredible philosophy, read their Vision Page.

Secondly, Noah’s Pals are not meant to make any kind of religious statement, which is great for me since we are not a religious family. In fact, when I showed the toys to Nathan, he said, “who is Noah?” The Noah’s Pals FAQ page says it best, “Intended for all, Noah’s Pals is a collection that evokes the beauty in all animals”.

Thanks again Parent Bloggers Network and Noah’s Pals for these beautiful collectible animals!